Quid est Eros et Artes
"It's not enough to rage against the lie...you've got to replace it with the truth."
-Bono, from U2
"Hmm...I don't think I've blogged about sex in a while. That's always a rather provocative subject to use as a background for philosophical ranting."
-Me.
The other day, I read a rather interesting quote from a discussion by J. K. Rowling about Harry Potter & Co.'s romantic entanglements. After she explained the fact that she wanted to make her characters realistic, she pointed to an episode from the Chronicles of Narnia that reflected one of the problems with much of children's literature. "There comes a point where Susan, who was the older girl, is lost to Narnia because she becomes interested in lipstick. She's become irreligious basically because she found sex. I have a big problem with that."
Rowling's reading of Susan having to choose between sex (lipstick) and religion is an incorrect view of the book as it was intended to be read, but such a reading does reflect Lewis' early reticence to include sex in his fiction. (Incidentally, that reticence was entirely gone by the time Lewis penned the conclusion of That Hideous Strength.)
The tendency among the church to condemn sex whole-heartedly is, of course, quite logical. Some Medieval theologians declared sex within marriage to be evil, though not a sin. And nowadays if you say "sex" among pretty much any group of Evangelical Christians, what springs to mind is "[-ual] immorality." There is, after all, a reason why Paul expressed that he thought it was better to remain celibate. But there is also a reason why Paul spent much more ink telling people that sex in marriage is not sinful and even (in one instance) encouraging married couples to have sex. Heck, a whole book of the Bible is borderline pornographic. (Most Christians who read The Song of Solomon without knowing it to be God's word wouldn't hesitate to drop the modifier "borderline.")
One modern author, Tad Williams, serves as a good example of at least one better way to talk about sex. He may not demonstrate an entirely correct understanding of sexual morality, but even so he often has a lot more good things to say about sex than those who Lewis, Chesterton, and Co. would characterize as "excessively puritanical." One character, for instance, chooses to sleep with an incredibly handsome noble while she is on the run; Williams' unflinching descriptions of the psychological effects, both throughout that relationship and in her later relationship with another (unrelated) character, drives home the importance of sexual morality more than any twenty books where uncomfortable issues are carefully kept out of sight. And all that without giving the impression that the term "sex" means "sexual immorality."
All this isn't to say that the world isn't currently obsessed both with pornography (in 'low art') and a resulting sort of sexual cynicism (in 'high art') that portrays sex in order to arouse the audience or urge them towards despair. (For the latter, see (or better yet - don't!) most any film by Stanley Kubrick.) But like any aspect of life, when Christians decide to abandon a battlefront, it seems a bit hypocritical for us to then mope about how bad it is.
-Bono, from U2
"Hmm...I don't think I've blogged about sex in a while. That's always a rather provocative subject to use as a background for philosophical ranting."
-Me.
The other day, I read a rather interesting quote from a discussion by J. K. Rowling about Harry Potter & Co.'s romantic entanglements. After she explained the fact that she wanted to make her characters realistic, she pointed to an episode from the Chronicles of Narnia that reflected one of the problems with much of children's literature. "There comes a point where Susan, who was the older girl, is lost to Narnia because she becomes interested in lipstick. She's become irreligious basically because she found sex. I have a big problem with that."
Rowling's reading of Susan having to choose between sex (lipstick) and religion is an incorrect view of the book as it was intended to be read, but such a reading does reflect Lewis' early reticence to include sex in his fiction. (Incidentally, that reticence was entirely gone by the time Lewis penned the conclusion of That Hideous Strength.)
The tendency among the church to condemn sex whole-heartedly is, of course, quite logical. Some Medieval theologians declared sex within marriage to be evil, though not a sin. And nowadays if you say "sex" among pretty much any group of Evangelical Christians, what springs to mind is "[-ual] immorality." There is, after all, a reason why Paul expressed that he thought it was better to remain celibate. But there is also a reason why Paul spent much more ink telling people that sex in marriage is not sinful and even (in one instance) encouraging married couples to have sex. Heck, a whole book of the Bible is borderline pornographic. (Most Christians who read The Song of Solomon without knowing it to be God's word wouldn't hesitate to drop the modifier "borderline.")
One modern author, Tad Williams, serves as a good example of at least one better way to talk about sex. He may not demonstrate an entirely correct understanding of sexual morality, but even so he often has a lot more good things to say about sex than those who Lewis, Chesterton, and Co. would characterize as "excessively puritanical." One character, for instance, chooses to sleep with an incredibly handsome noble while she is on the run; Williams' unflinching descriptions of the psychological effects, both throughout that relationship and in her later relationship with another (unrelated) character, drives home the importance of sexual morality more than any twenty books where uncomfortable issues are carefully kept out of sight. And all that without giving the impression that the term "sex" means "sexual immorality."
All this isn't to say that the world isn't currently obsessed both with pornography (in 'low art') and a resulting sort of sexual cynicism (in 'high art') that portrays sex in order to arouse the audience or urge them towards despair. (For the latter, see (or better yet - don't!) most any film by Stanley Kubrick.) But like any aspect of life, when Christians decide to abandon a battlefront, it seems a bit hypocritical for us to then mope about how bad it is.
